As I said, I don't believe in an absolute moral standing. What is wrong for me is only wrong for me, I cannot judge others actions as wrong because I don't know wether or not their own morals permit it.
My family is generally of similar opinions to me, all can fight for the same reason. My mother attended the police acadamy, my brother does judo, my sisters can all shoot and are never far from a gun (though I'd prefer they practiced a martial art)
Don't get me wrong, I'm not blaiming the victims for the actions of others. I'm blaiming them for their own failure to defend themselves or those close to them. Its a big difference.
The bottom line is, the establichment or loved ones may or may not be there to protect you or get you what you want. Thus the only person one should rely on is oneself. If you want something, a job, food, saftey for youself or others, get it. Work for it, earn it. If you fail to work hard enough to get it, you don't deserve it. Freedom is no different. If one would rather be safe than free, then when someone threatens ones freedom, one will lose it untill such a time as they are willing earn it back.