Gravelord Build - Impossible Advice Required

The build: http://mmdks.com/32rs

Obviously this is a themed build, so fashion souls is in play here. Basically is there any way I can wring more poise out of this build without changing it too much? I'm not sure there's anything I can do without swapping fog ring for wolf, but you not only lose the ghostliness but you gain the wolf aura which also hurts the look.

So, who can do the impossible?

Waistcloth of the Channelers will get you seven more. Still a skirt. Adding the robe would offer 12 more for a total of 47.

Why insist on fast roll?  If you do and also insist on using havel's + fog, you're going to be poise limited.  I would recommend just dropping havel's and mid-rolling with wolf, but that would make you visible despite fog ring and thus not really useful.  Short of doing that or changing gear, though, you're stuck.  Maybe take the channeler's suggestion just to get past 30 so that you don't get stunned by 2h r1's on most weapons and stun-locked by 1st attack of say a halberd, but that's about it.

http://mugenmonkey.com/darksouls/?c=213191073821567860

you may wonder: "why thorn leggings?" theres a glitch where on male characters wearing the fog ring with those leggings makes your legs invisible(if the charcters female you can use artorias's leggings), that fits with the vibe you're going for right? and so the above set up gives you a good poise value for midroll and the fog ring+wolf is pretty cool-looking imo.

http://mmdks.com/32xa it is a far shot from the source (no pyro) but still fits the ghost theme good enough

What about this?
http://mmdks.com/331d

You lose the Flammy lighty-up sword effects, but you get past the Katana poise break, and you keep the Ghostly looks a bit too.