There is another thing we have to consider. Is the universe still young? My answer is yes. Earth's and the universe lifetime are very close (14 billion years for the universe and around 5 billion years for Earth). What I am trying to establish is that for a planet to generate intelligent beings, it needs +4 billion years for formation processes and at least 1 billion years for life to evolve to fully intelligent beings. This makes me think that we humans could be the first intelligent species to exist in the universe. Or we might be one of the first.
But what if there's already an intelligent species out there? Could be since the very first stars could have spawned Earth-like planets. It doesn't even need to be Earth-like since scientists discovered silicon-based life in one of the moons I think. The key is consistency and stability of the star for the planet to spawn life.
Now this is my favorite part. Since I took a modern physics class some time ago I have been convinced with the idea that nothing can travel faster than the speed of light. We did a couple of formulas, and one of them draw a graphic of mass vs energy. It say that as an object get close to the speed of light, its mass transforms into energy and its energy into mass (crazy right). There's the other thing that says that as you get closer to the speed of light the time around you dilates and you age slower compared to someone on Earth.
Anyway, what I'm trying to establish is that no matter if an intelligent species were capable of travel close to the speed of light, they wouldn't be able to travel very far without dying. Our closest star, Proxima Centauri, is 4 light years away. Our closest galaxy, 4.5 billion light years away. So if we want to search for life that we can contact, we have to do it within our own galaxy, which decreases the odds of encountering intelligent life. If there's intelligent life out there, I'm pretty damn sure they don't bother going too far from their own world. Let's discuss, I'll add more with replies.