Things to consider:
1- You must have killed Sif in order to enter the boss fight. Otherwise, there is no way to drop down and not die without the ring Sif gives you. Most important consideration.
2- No one is there to farm ghosts. MOST of the time, not all, but most of the time the host will take the short cut by dropping off the edge by the first 2 ghosts. You have to drain the water in order to even be able to summon someone. So while trying to be a phantom that helps the host through the board is admirable, it's unnecessary 99% of the time.
3- Use a transient curse when the host is ready to leave the blacksmith area. They last a long time, and its not something you want as a buff going into the fight. There are however, 3 ghosts near the boss fog that should be killed. If you wait to use the TC at that time, you'll have a much longer duration until you can use a buff appropriate for the 4 Kings fight.
4- Do not engage the Darkwraiths and the 3 ghosts by the fog door at the same time. Sure, if it's not a new game, it's not that big of a deal, but after that it can be very problematic. Also, a lot of people doing speed runs do not even summon anyone for the first play through.
5- Go into the fight assuming its a new game or a + version. Right now I'm at sl 47 and trying to platinum before I hit 55 (my forum event character). I've seen people dual wielding the furysword trying to parry the dark wraiths (unsuccessfully), people run in and fight the 2 dark wraiths and 3 ghosts by the fog door getting obliterated, etcetcetc. Don't assume because your at a lower soul level that it's the original play through.
6- Just needs restated: Don't be a phantom without the Abyss Ring...just don't do it. I've had to homeward bone out a dozen times because of this. I have 70 some soft humanity, and would prefer to keep them. I'm human and make mistakes, what can I say.
Thank you for reading, maaal.
PS-Feel free to add something I've forgotten. I'll put it into the op.
PSS-This really isn't about specific techniques to fight the boss. There's plenty of info on that.
PSSS-Good Luck Soulers.
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