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    when life just gets you down

    Post by raecor14 on Sat Jun 08, 2013 9:53 am

    lately things have just been....bad. im in a foul mood all the time and no matter what happens i always end up being dragged back too it. i hate home, almost as much as i hate school. me and my girlfriend barely see each-other and i'm worried the way i am is going to make her leave. i have pretty much distanced myself from everyone except a select few and things feel like they are going to be bad for a long long time, what should i do?


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    Re: when life just gets you down

    Post by Encore on Sat Jun 08, 2013 9:56 am

    Get to the roots of the problem.


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    Re: when life just gets you down

    Post by WhatDoesThePendantDo? on Sat Jun 08, 2013 12:33 pm

    Yeah, I largely agree with the Cat.

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    Re: when life just gets you down

    Post by GrinTwist on Sat Jun 08, 2013 12:38 pm

    Why exactly do you hate your home and school?

    I understand a hate for school but if it's something that is putting your in a constantly negative mood you need to talk to someone about it and try to get something worked out.

    Same goes with whatever is going on at your house. I don't exactly know the details on any of it but you need to work something out instead of getting angry at it. Situations like this tend to get worse if you get angrier about whatever is going on and not dealing with it as soon as possible.

    I hope everything get's better for you regardless.


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    Re: when life just gets you down

    Post by LunarFog on Sat Jun 08, 2013 4:44 pm

    Restart your life. Do new things.

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    Re: when life just gets you down

    Post by ResIsBestStat on Sat Jun 08, 2013 5:09 pm

    LunarFog wrote:Restart your life. Do new things.

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    Re: when life just gets you down

    Post by raecor14 on Sat Jun 08, 2013 10:07 pm

    thanks guys, its just kinda everything at the moment, my plan was to go to Med school but with me grades......we there's not much chance of that happening. home just sucks, everyone is down. im going to go see someone soon hopefully.....


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    Re: when life just gets you down

    Post by Carphil on Sat Jun 08, 2013 11:11 pm

    Cheer up.


    Think like this: you're not the only one, a lot of people pass through these situations


    Sometimes when I'm home, I feel very sad for not having anyone to talk with, I can't sleep, I feel ill and stuff. What I do is to immerse myself in a book, a game or a movie/TV show marathon, until I can hang out with friends.


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    Re: when life just gets you down

    Post by Reaperfan on Sat Jun 08, 2013 11:31 pm

    As long as you still have those select few friends you can turn to, you'll have support. Friends don't like seeing friends feeling down, and simply voicing your problems in person with someone you can trust should help relieve that stress.

    And while it may not be much and I don't know how you feel about things from my...fandom's side of the internet, I can say listening to this song has genuinely helped me get out of some down times in my life.


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    Re: when life just gets you down

    Post by GrinTwist on Sun Jun 09, 2013 11:59 am

    raecor14 wrote:thanks guys, its just kinda everything at the moment, my plan was to go to Med school but with me grades......we there's not much chance of that happening. home just sucks, everyone is down. im going to go see someone soon hopefully.....

    I'm not sure how school works over there but there is still the chance of you picking yourself up when it comes to grades. That could be something that could help you out with escaping from everything at home until you can hang out with a friend if you're really set on going to med school.


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