Yesterday I was hanging in the Burg doing PvP on my SL 110, started the night at SL 104 but whatever. I was waiting to be invaded, doing some Gravelording, and summoning folks for duels through their dragon remnants and RSS. I won some, lost some and generally had a good time but I made a few observations I wanna share in the hope it helps someone.
First off if your just a Darkwraith invader, I would prefer if you practiced some decent dueling etiquette but I'm not gonna have a fit if you don't. You're a forceful invader so I expect less of you and its just part of the game. Do as you will, but remember I'll return the favor so if you're BS fishing and I BS you first, please no hate mail.
Now the real reason I wanted to write this was for the guys using dragon remnants or RSS to get a duel. You guys need to remember a few things. When you put that sign down you're asking me to invite you to my world and hope for a fun fight, I'm taking all the risk. So a few pointers.
1. I can stand on your sign and see you. So if you're using one of those over used builds preferred by the DkS D bags, I'm not gonna invite you. Most people who make for dishonorable/boring dueling partners wear the same stuff and while you may not be a douche bag, you look an awful lot like one, so I'll fight someone else. If you're really attached to that Mask of Mom just become a Darkwraith I'll happily fight you then, but I'm not gonna invite you for a duel.
2. Remember I can also see your name before inviting you. So if I fight you and its a good fight I'm gonna wanna do it again, especially if I loose because I wanna figure you out. There were several people I dueled multiple times yesterday, one dragon cov I fought 3 times he was med rolling in black knights with a BKGA we split the first 2 and he took the third was an epic grudge match. Conversely if you're a D bag I know your name and where you drop your RSS so I'm gonna come back and *** with you or ignore you resulting in less fun fights for you. Dueled a guy using an RSS yesterday, fight was fun and even till I got the upper hand, then they ran off and healed before I could stop it and won the fight. I sprinted back to their RSS resummoned them, fight went the same way except this time when they used that humanity I chain BS'd them, too bad so sad if you wanna duel do it right.
In summary, act like a real human being who wants to have fun with other similar human beings and you'll find more people who want to fight with you. If you wanna be a dumbass go join the Forest cov, DarkWraiths/Moons and fight people who don't have a choice.