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    Post by skarekrow13 Mon Nov 11, 2013 5:29 pm

    I also run around at a Buffalo Bills blog/forum and on that site, thanks to the user base, there is actually an accepted sarcasm font. The community enforces it pretty well too.
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    Post by Serious_Much Mon Nov 11, 2013 5:40 pm

    I love top tier tv shows, but my favourite show is a generic "crime drama with a twist"

    Btw it's also the best show on tv
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    Post by Tolvo Mon Nov 11, 2013 7:02 pm

    My brother has been with a girl for many years, they're probably going to get married one day.  Her brother just died in a car crash , same age as me .  All I can think right now is how it should have been me that died, that he was a helpful contributing member of society and that a lowly parasite like me is still alive.  There really is no justice in the world.
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    Post by tigab95 Mon Nov 11, 2013 8:13 pm

    Tolvo wrote:My brother has been with a girl for many years, they're probably going to get married one day.  Her brother just died in a car crash , same age as me .  All I can think right now is how it should have been me that died, that he was a helpful contributing member of society and that a lowly parasite like me is still alive.  There really is no justice in the world.
    Dont say that Tolvo ! youre not a lowly parasite ! sad Youre very important for us
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    Post by Hatsune Miku Tue Nov 12, 2013 12:31 am

    I'm really starting to like the Thieves Guild questline in Skyrim.
    Yeah, it's a slow start, but once you keep the ball rolling, it gets good.
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    Post by Soul of Stray Demon Tue Nov 12, 2013 10:11 pm

    So, I don't have every detail yet, but from what I know right now for sure, my dad has taken money and went off with some girl.

    I .... feel horribly sad. I don't know what to do.
    He went off today at 11, for a "hike" and then at around 5, we were wondering where he was.

    Then I find out now that he apparently went off with a girl.

    He took 8,000$ out of my mom's checking account.

    Now that my mom has talked to me, I found out even worse stuff.
    He's cheated on her like 4-5 times before
    The first 4 times she forgave him, then the 5 time, she stopped decided to stop being his wife, more like a house mate. But stayed together for our sake Apparently when my sister was 2, he wanted to get a divorce, and actually took all the money they had at the time out of the checking account saying that since my mom had a job, she could earn it back.

    He's a horrid alcholic.  He went to california once to do something with my dads house and.. he apparently was checked up on by a neighbor, and he was completely passed out drunk then.

    <<< Oh
    He just got home opens my door wants to talk so I'm like leave, LEAVE, LEAVE, and he's like I love you, and I tell him to leave, and he says he doesn't know why I'm upset with him

    I"M *** ANGRY WITH HIS *** UP ***..

    HE"S A BASTARD DOUCHE.... *** him forever

    All, I feel is anger and hate for him right now... My mom keeps saying it's not just his fault, but I know it is. I... don't know what to do.
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    Post by tigab95 Tue Nov 12, 2013 10:22 pm

    If yu ever need me , I will always be there stray
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    Post by Soul of Stray Demon Tue Nov 12, 2013 10:27 pm

    tigab95 wrote:If yu ever need me , I will  always be there stray
    Thanks, but right now, the way I'm feeling.. this may be the worse moment in my life.

    I've gone through hard things... but never like this.... not at this pace.

    Luckily my mother does have money saved away for something like this... he can't get it, but it's not that much.

    He.. won't do too badly, I know he loves us(the kids), but... still, I just don't know what I should do.
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    Post by tigab95 Tue Nov 12, 2013 10:30 pm

    Soul of Stray Demon wrote:
    tigab95 wrote:If yu ever need me , I will  always be there stray
    Thanks, but right now, the way I'm feeling.. this may be the worse moment in my life.

    I've gone through hard things... but never like this.... not at this pace.

    Luckily my mother does have money saved away for something like this... he can't get it, but it's not that much.

    He.. won't do too badly, I know he loves us(the kids), but... still, I just don't know what I should do.
    Im there if you ever want to talk
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    Post by reim0027 Tue Nov 12, 2013 11:16 pm

    He needs to leave. Simple as that. He has damaged your relationship and trust severely. He needs to get out, get to AA, or stop his alcoholism some way. He needs to get help.

    I'm so sorry you have to go through this, Soul. But, just remember, you have a long time ahead of you. Your life will change dramatically. I'm sure it will start changing to the positive.
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    Post by tigab95 Tue Nov 12, 2013 11:24 pm

    reim0027 wrote:He needs to leave.  Simple as that.  He has damaged your relationship and trust severely.  He needs to get out, get to AA, or stop his alcoholism some way.  He needs to get help.

    I'm so sorry you have to go through this, Soul.  But, just remember, you have a long time ahead of you.  Your life will change dramatically.  I'm sure it will start changing to the positive.
    Amen , I second that
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    Post by Hatsune Miku Wed Nov 13, 2013 12:15 am

    reim0027 wrote:He needs to leave.  Simple as that.  He has damaged your relationship and trust severely.  He needs to get out, get to AA, or stop his alcoholism some way.  He needs to get help.

    I'm so sorry you have to go through this, Soul.  But, just remember, you have a long time ahead of you.  Your life will change dramatically.  I'm sure it will start changing to the positive.
    Basically what I up repped right here.
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    Post by Soul of Stray Demon Wed Nov 13, 2013 12:32 am

    reim0027 wrote:He needs to leave.  Simple as that.  He has damaged your relationship and trust severely.  He needs to get out, get to AA, or stop his alcoholism some way.  He needs to get help.

    I'm so sorry you have to go through this, Soul.  But, just remember, you have a long time ahead of you.  Your life will change dramatically.  I'm sure it will start changing to the positive.
    The problem is, it's not just alcholism.. I believe that's just made it worse over the years.
    I know, this shouldn't affect my life too badly, not at my age.. but it's still hard to go through.

    Thanks everyone, this forum cheers me up.
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    Post by TomBombadil515* Thu Nov 14, 2013 12:07 am

    Serious_Much wrote:I love top tier tv shows, but my favourite show is a generic "crime drama with a twist"

    Btw it's also the best show on tv
    This is all I have to say:

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    Post by TheMeInTeam Thu Nov 14, 2013 8:08 pm

    Soul of Stray Demon wrote:
    reim0027 wrote:He needs to leave.  Simple as that.  He has damaged your relationship and trust severely.  He needs to get out, get to AA, or stop his alcoholism some way.  He needs to get help.

    I'm so sorry you have to go through this, Soul.  But, just remember, you have a long time ahead of you.  Your life will change dramatically.  I'm sure it will start changing to the positive.
    The problem is, it's not just alcholism.. I believe that's just made it worse over the years.
    I know, this shouldn't affect my life too badly, not at my age.. but it's still hard to go through.

    Thanks everyone, this forum cheers me up.
    Emotional stress from essentially losing family members (at least as you know them) isn't easy at any age.  It's normal to feel upset by that...or much more than just upset.

    Reim's right.  Your description of his behavior pattern suggests he needs help, not to come back and repeat the behavior, further damaging things.  Systemic, permanent change is difficult to attain for anybody.  That said, he's clearly proven he can't do it on his own and until he can get his act together, he doesn't belong there.  It's up to you whether you can emotionally tolerate giving him another chance, should he ever actually pursue help and alter his behavior consistently.  Before that, I'd not even consider it.

    I know it's hard, but please don't let it drag you down for a prolonged time.  Grieve as you feel it helps, but remember that your life is your own, and that you can choose to surround yourself with people you know you can trust and enjoy being with.
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    Post by Serious_Much Fri Nov 15, 2013 10:31 am

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