It May Be That TIme

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    It May Be That TIme

    Post by Tolvo on Wed Feb 20, 2013 4:46 pm

    I think it may be that time for me to finally leave. At the least I'll be taking a break, at the most I'm gone for good. The stress I get from the harassment in game from random people and forum members is just getting to be too great. It's causing me serious health issues and just killing my will to even play online at all anymore or even sign into PSN. I'm unsure if I'll bounce back and just never again play online, but for the time being I'm done with the forum.
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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by ChizFreak on Wed Feb 20, 2013 4:57 pm

    Join the Dark Side! Play on PC!


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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by densetsushun on Wed Feb 20, 2013 4:58 pm

    That sucks Tolvo, you seem like an awesome guy sad Hope you find a way to lower your stress and enjoy the game again sad


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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by Carphil on Wed Feb 20, 2013 5:00 pm

    You should do like this



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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by WhatDoesThePendantDo? on Wed Feb 20, 2013 5:09 pm

    Cripes, what's happening?


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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by Spurgun on Wed Feb 20, 2013 5:22 pm

    So you're leaving us again? Oh well, hope you take your time and rest.
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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by Slarg232 on Wed Feb 20, 2013 5:47 pm

    IT HAS BEGUN! The Older senior members are leaving, and the newer members will take their place with casualness casual stuff!

    THE END IS NIGH!


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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by Uparkaam on Wed Feb 20, 2013 6:57 pm

    Take care man. Remember that you're always welcome here in the off-topic.


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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by skarekrow13 on Wed Feb 20, 2013 6:57 pm

    Best wishes, as always

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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by BLA1NE on Wed Feb 20, 2013 7:06 pm

    Take care of yoursef, Tolvo. If not sooner, come back for DkS2!


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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by WyrmHero on Wed Feb 20, 2013 9:09 pm

    Take care bro. Prayer


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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by The Letter X on Wed Feb 20, 2013 9:52 pm

    You will be missed, Tolvo. Take care of yourself.


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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by Mr. Tart on Wed Feb 20, 2013 9:58 pm

    It is always sad to see another member leave. As has already been said, you will be missed, and i'm sure you know that yourself.

    I hope to one day see you return. Whatever you do, do not forget to use your godlike powers to make up for a great comeback! Point Forward

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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by Tolvo on Wed Feb 20, 2013 10:40 pm

    I think I might be settling to strictly playing Dark Souls offline now and finding a way so that I'll be incapable of receiving messages on PSN.
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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by WhatDoesThePendantDo? on Wed Feb 20, 2013 10:44 pm

    That may be a better solution. No need to outright quit, just phase out the trolls. cheers

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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by BLA1NE on Wed Feb 20, 2013 11:01 pm

    Would changing your PSN help?


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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by Tolvo on Wed Feb 20, 2013 11:10 pm

    I should probably just stick to using alts.
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    Post by RANT on Wed Feb 20, 2013 11:10 pm

    Just Change your psn id lok blaine said.


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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by Mr. Tart on Wed Feb 20, 2013 11:18 pm

    Tolvo wrote:I think it may be that time for me to finally leave. At the least I'll be taking a break, at the most I'm gone for good. The stress I get from the harassment in game from random people and forum members is just getting to be too great. It's causing me serious health issues and just killing my will to even play online at all anymore or even sign into PSN. I'm unsure if I'll bounce back and just never again play online, but for the time being I'm done with the forum.

    What has already been said. I'm not familiar with the PSN system, but changing psn id seems legit, so stick with doing that.

    You can't let others stop you from having your fun. There will always be *ssholes around, trying to push you down one way or another. Letting them get to you, is letting them win pretty much. And if there's a loophole, then i don't see why letting them win would be the better option. I kind of doubt the harassment is all the reason to it, but that's what you mentioned in your first post.


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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by Tolvo on Wed Feb 20, 2013 11:21 pm

    Well it's just a combination of things stressing me out. I'm stuck at home all day from medical problems, at home I listen to my parents fight and talk about what seems to be a coming divorce or even suicide if I want to read too deeply into things. Then my only escape is gaming or writing, and my writing is very dark and in some ways unhealthy with the focus I put on death and dark endings. So gaming is my healthiest escape, and lately that's been filled with taunting messages and people taunting me or just generally acting mean towards me seemingly wanting me to feel worthless.

    I guess these days I just do feel worthless and weak.
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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by WhatDoesThePendantDo? on Wed Feb 20, 2013 11:26 pm

    Tolvo wrote:I guess these days I just do feel worthless and weak.

    Have you tried therapy, Tolvo?

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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by Tolvo on Wed Feb 20, 2013 11:27 pm

    It's too expensive.
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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by Mr. Tart on Wed Feb 20, 2013 11:29 pm

    It's only human to feel weak at times. Do you have any other option at all to get out of the house? Anything?

    If not, then i only really see 2 options. You either talk with your parents about it, which, depending on what your parents are like, could work out for the better, or you get someone to talk to. And when i say someone to talk to, i'm not talking about a psychiatrist or any of the kind, but just any kind of friend.

    It is very hard to come up with advice right of the bat, but that's all i can say for now.

    If you need someone to talk to, feel free to send me a message as well. Now, i know a 17 year old teenager may not be the no. 1 option, but just wanna put it out there for you anyway.


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    Re: It May Be That TIme

    Post by Mr. Tart on Wed Feb 20, 2013 11:30 pm

    Is there anything that you could think of that made you particularly happy throughout your life? Anything that you'd have easy access to?


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    Post by Soris Ice Goldwing on Wed Feb 20, 2013 11:32 pm

    **** Tolvo that's a lot to do deal with. I hate to say this but that is literally a been there situation for me so I understand that darkness. Have you tried music, talking to someone who is willing to listen to you speak your mind? Self thinking and looking to a future you can work towards?


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