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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by User1 on Tue May 07, 2013 12:21 pm

    Thank you Soris! silly
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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by GrinTwist on Tue May 07, 2013 12:43 pm

    So after some serious thought on it all I think I might actually get mtf surgery. I'm still looking into the requirements but I'm hoping sometime in the next two years I'll be able to get it.


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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by User1 on Tue May 07, 2013 12:44 pm

    MTF?
    What does the abbreviation stand for?
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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by GrinTwist on Tue May 07, 2013 12:47 pm

    Male to female surgery


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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by Mr. Tart on Tue May 07, 2013 12:47 pm

    Male-to-female surgery if i'm not mistaken. Good luck Grin. I hope you'll be happy with it.


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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by User1 on Tue May 07, 2013 12:48 pm

    In the next 2 years is a difficult period time to judge accurately.

    But, if you wish to do that, so be it. Follow your dreams as you see fit. And I hope you can go through with it. Whatever makes you happy, makes me happy.

    Just saying, if a friend of mine is happy, so am I.
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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by densetsushun on Tue May 07, 2013 12:50 pm

    GrinTwist wrote:So after some serious thought on it all I think I might actually get mtf surgery. I'm still looking into the requirements but I'm hoping sometime in the next two years I'll be able to get it.
    I know someone going through ftm and I have to say that from what I know, it's a rigorous process full of psych evaluations, followed by hormonal treatment before going into actual surgery. I do hope you'll be happy with it though and I wish you the best of luck! big grin


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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by GrinTwist on Tue May 07, 2013 12:53 pm

    I plan ahead and make sure to have back-up plans but that's really the ultimate goal in that period of time.

    I'm also trying to deal with my social anxiety and depression as much as possible too but that is proving to be very difficult right now.

    Also thanks for the support I haven't gotten it from anyone else so far. happy


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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by User1 on Tue May 07, 2013 12:56 pm

    You're in a depression?

    As you know, I just got out of mine.

    3rd depression I had gone through.

    Try talking to close friends about your problems as much as you can, in all cases, social anxiety, depressive issues, whatever. As long as you persevere through this, and get what you want in time, I am happy too.
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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by densetsushun on Tue May 07, 2013 1:00 pm

    I'd advise you to work through your depression and other anxieties first before applying, if you already have a therapist speak to them about your plans, make sure they understand you. You don't want to go into that interview and be pegged as someone that isn't mentally stable enough to make that decision(wanting mtf surgery).


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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by GrinTwist on Tue May 07, 2013 1:01 pm

    More along the lines of "I have chronic depression" I've learned to cope but that doesn't help because of my mood swings which can be brought on by anything.

    As far as talking with friends goes, well, I'm doing that right now. I don't have many friends to begin with and that's when I'm including the people I consider friends on the forums.


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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by User1 on Tue May 07, 2013 1:04 pm

    If you somehow didn't already know this, remember you will always be my friend, no matter how you change. To me, you are a great person I am glad to consider a friend of my own, and I shall reiterate for the second time: My prayers go out to you for your future. May your life improve as much as mine has so far.

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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by Soris Ice Goldwing on Tue May 07, 2013 1:06 pm

    Got to love the forum for the support thatis given here. I wish you luck Grin with whatever your decsion is.


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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by GrinTwist on Tue May 07, 2013 1:12 pm

    Thank you, everyone. Never really thought I would get any support from this many people.

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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by User1 on Tue May 07, 2013 1:14 pm

    T'is no problem, my friend.
    We are your friends, of course we shall support you.

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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by twilightwarwolf on Tue May 07, 2013 2:30 pm

    Grin im very happy to read this about the surgery. and with the depression and anxiety I can't say much but keep fighting and never give up. and ill try to help in anyway i can. I also am doing this on my phone and i accidently down rep'ed you. I hope it didn't cause any confusion.


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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by User1 on Tue May 07, 2013 2:34 pm

    @Twilighwarwolf I'd relax about it. It didn't affect Grin, since this is Off-Topic. (The downvote, I mean)

    @Grin But, still, let it be known (finally, said this so much..) that we will always, I repeat ALWAYS be here in your moment of need. At the very least, if we're all on. silly. But if not I'll be glad to assist, I'm on nearly all day. (sad I know..)
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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by GrinTwist on Tue May 07, 2013 3:18 pm

    Alright thanks, again. I appreciate the support and Twilight your fine with the down-rep. Funny thing of it is is that of all the months of me being here that's only my second down-rep. silly


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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by User1 on Tue May 07, 2013 3:26 pm

    Second?
    I've had 10. sad
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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by GrinTwist on Tue May 07, 2013 3:27 pm

    Yeah, it's kind of surprising seeing as I've been here for so long and have close to 2500 posts.


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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by User1 on Tue May 07, 2013 3:30 pm

    To be honest, I don't know what I did to get 10 downvotes..
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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by GrinTwist on Tue May 07, 2013 3:33 pm

    You probably got them when you were making 500 posts a day.


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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by User1 on Tue May 07, 2013 3:35 pm

    True, true.
    I did get 4 recently though.
    Not sure why I got them either.
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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by nsane32 on Tue May 07, 2013 4:16 pm

    I got no words left


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    Re: The "let it out" thread.

    Post by densetsushun on Tue May 07, 2013 4:20 pm

    nsane32 wrote:I got no words left
    What's up Nsane?


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